1, if your child likes condemn others, because usually you are too much for his criticism.
2, if your child things like complaining because you are always critical of him.
3, if your child like confrontation, because you are hostile to him, and forced.
4, if your child is not good, because you are a people who lack compassion.
5, if your child is timid, shy, because he is often mocked, insulted.
6, if your child does not tell you the truth, because you catch the child's Retroflex Suffixation, turning the old account.
7, if your child does not distinguish right from wrong, because you despotism, did not give children the opportunity to own and thinking.
8, if your child is very low self-esteem, because your children are always disappointed not to encourage patience.
9, if your child is jealous, sensitive, afraid of injuries, because his family did not tolerance and warmth.
10, if your child does not like yourself, because you are his lack of acceptance, recognition and respect.
11, if your child does not motivated, work hard, because you are asking too much for him that he can not do.
12, if your child is very selfish because you are too spoiled for him, to what to what.
13, if you painstaking efforts of parents of children do not know, because you do not teach him to understand other people.
14, if your child back, to escape, because of your contempt and was hit.
15, if your child lazy and dependence, because you do things for the kids and decisions too much.
16, if you are a child control, strict discipline because you can not always begging children.
17, if your Children lie, cheat, because you're not tolerant, likes to punish the child.
18, if your child is cold, attack others, because you have too much of his satire and cold.
19, if your child violence, because you used violence to deal with children's issues.
20, if your child will not be strong, fear of difficult because you do not have to give him the opportunity to exercise.
the above three conditions to explain your family education in a issue that must be the expert guidance of the!
teach children the practice
1, someone to pour, do not dry looking, use the hand help to show courtesy
2, people talking to you You should at least be able to take, then they said can not be the last sentence, you do not the next sentence, or blindly saying 啊啊 ah, 是 是 是.
3, when someone staring at you Do not look directly at each other , pretending not to notice.
4, bad mood, even the best skin care products and cosmetics are also not remedy the skin.
5, sleep well, people will speak incoherent, unresponsive, prominent black eye. < br> 6, another release of will be led by the fire faded, otherwise, the leadership will be fuel. (many tx think this is not good. we look like, or to specific analysis of the specific circumstances of the Caesar ~)
8. Women can not palm a lifetime facing up to the men ask for money.
9. After dinner withdrew, said: 11. Do not tilt the chair seat to
12. You eat Duanwan, do not pick the plate Do not use chopsticks knock bowl
13. Finally, remember to close the door of a door
14. anyone to go to say: throw stones
18. listen when people talk, their eyes do not waver. This seemed very rude.
19. someone else to pour tea, the spout should not at another
20. station a station phase, take a ride phase.
21. experience that can open the door inside out, pull, not push. (quite a few students feel that this relatively harsh .... Well, you automatically Ignore it ...)< br> 22. said to have to do it. can not do, do not promise.
23. not because they are cheap not greedy for money, amount of money spent, when there
24. the house was when the light hand out to close
25. The world does not believe in tears.
26. Instead of spending an empty mind to keep a man, let a man take an empty mind to retain their
27. people poor go rather short
28. hold rice or served tea to others, if in the interval of the people, not through the delivery from the front of others, but from others around the back of delivery
29. they have real ability is the ability
30. Institute of gentle learn to listen
31. to another home, people do not sit on the bed
32. clink with others in the wine on the table, their hand must be lower than the other, in particular, is the other side is an ascendant or leadership to stand up when the toast to show respectful
33. sunny umbrella, rainy day is always full with dry food --- good.
34. If you ask someone if others do not answer you, do not die with the nerve to keep asking.
35. eat, try not to sound
36. pick something to wear shoes or time to squat, bend over you gotta do --- we are women Children
37. others to criticize you, even if he is wrong, do not split first identified, so we all calm down and explain
38. to do things to stop, whether it is binge eating favorite food or trouble temper
39. to a friend's house after dinner, take the initiative to help clean up the table ----- wash owner has been very hard to cook, can not also allow the owner to clean up afterwards
40.'ll meet all kinds of life all sorts of people, you can not tune with everyone, but one thing is universally applicable: How do you treat others, how others will treat you
41. hospitality have large household had a small < br> 42. back to the fist is more powerful to fight back
43. who live in the world, we must first learn a br> 45. save money does not depend on, and will spend will earn
46. life-long learning, not just learn book knowledge, but also to learn how to dealing with people, society more complex than you think
47 . Do not talk with my colleagues in the non-supervisors or other colleagues, your mood is likely to be someone else's words against your evidence
48. to do things, do a good job is your part, is that you do not dereliction of duty < br> 49. only the wrong buy, nothing wrong with selling. not just focus on the petty advantages.
50. Sometimes the loneliness is normal, do not be afraid, it has to swap
51. a true friend, but I wonder if you have No luck encountered. With or without experience, do not deny it. Do not calculated to others, especially not calculating your favorite people. of your favorite people, do not use means to get
52. the most courageous thing is to recognize After clearing the truth of life is still loving life. Do not be afraid to deceive, but there is deception in the world to know
53. to borrow money when the heart must be a bottom, is to think of the money from him. So Always take out the money he can afford to lose in the range. less than the number of affordable, even if not come back, my heart is ready early. they can not afford to lose the number, not by
54. the most good friends, unless he could eat poor food, and it would be best not to have economic relations. many valuable friendships are ruined on the money.
55. gentleman can be meaning in things, but not pay attention to things < br> 56. away from home you may be able to tolerate, take a step backward
57. wipe the table, when to go its own direction wipe
58. to call the phone the first thing it must be fed, HI; hang When the other party if it is older, or your boss, then the other side first and then you hang hang. If you are elders or superiors, then take the initiative to hang up, do not let the phone side of the persons
59. a hundred times not to be unfaithful
60. do not spit throwing things, and if there is no trash to carry home to throw trash
61. more books to our mind, you will see a the wider world
62. but for you to adapt to society, not society to adapt to your
63. Do not let others know their true thoughts, to laugh in front of people laugh, cry tears of a man hiding
64. Do not walk hand in his pockets
65. to do simple things complicated and complicated things simple and do
66. opportunity to leave only those who are prepared, the sky will not fall in your lap
67. Whatever the conditions, carefully brush your teeth, especially at night
68. morning must eat breakfast, no breakfast, a cup of water is also necessary to
69. the less people right and wrong, his own management firm
70. You are priceless
71. girls, and boys go out to their own pay
72. To be responsible for their actions, not blaming Heaven by the people, think before doing should not be out of trouble to learn their solution
73. To dignitaries in front of people, we must first people to suffer after
74. If the door spring, either pull or push, last in first out. If someone should take the initiative behind the door a good help to prevent the door bounced back photographed others. others have to say thank you for your door.
75. polite should be for everyone, whether superiors, elders, waiter or street picking up trash the old man.
76. Do not jump the queue . you win, just waiting for that few seconds. But you lost, but it is certainly the quality of your people. (if it is in a hurry to discharge the person in front of you explain the situation. At this time, most people take the initiative to make you stand first.)
77. Do not go for the last laugh, to see who the last laugh.
78. pouring, filling, Zhencha pour half. in the country is to pour down full, to show respect in foreign countries, or foreign guests, especially the back of red wine, no matter to whom that must be less than half the glass, about one-third
79. at home from a friend back home, and then Be sure to tell friends, you home., whether they do not care about this as a gentle off. If you have friends at home, send a text message asked if any home
80. From the outside, came back home to do if a hot meal, not immediately to eat, we should adapt to temperature, preferably warm water warm Hekou teeth, I heard that this can prevent you from old toothache, tooth loss as early as
81. dinner, each with a dish, so that the leaders and elders before Dongkuai, or take the initiative to turn to food in front of them
82. others sleep, try to lower the walk, the volume of work or speak.
83. saving is good, but not stingy
84 . reaching people do not fight smiling
85. unimportant little things do not care too much about the past is past it.
86. and others when speaking to distance, not close to other people
87. speak or multi-use ;
89. public places, cell phone ring tones, message alert tones whispered some, it is best to vibration. talking on the phone not to increase the volume in high spirits, dancing, destruction of the surrounding quiet, let others have had to notice you That is very rude.
90. and everyone is talking about things, the phone rang, to tell my colleagues: I'm sorry, you start with, I received a phone call
91. go visit people. the owner to send you, , be sure to say: Hope you sent.
92. the first one into the elevator, to pressed button, so people are coming back. out, if you are a junior, is the younger generation, if the time is not too fast to wait for someone else out, you re out.
93. someone very dear to her, or send you something very expensive, it is best not to accept. civil use, and sometimes destroy the precious material friendship.
94. classmate invited him to dinner, some back to you again about the time.
95. When someone asks for help and you can not help you when you apologize, then think about ways to compensate. such as, You check the Internet. That might have ...to ask you about your school, you ask a new employee to your unit or department, even if you hate this place, it is best to objectively evaluate it, do not bring their own subjective bias, describes it in with the to leading ear.
97. Diyan smoking friend to others, to be handed two, then someone smoking, we should take away from the Okanagan;
others to ignition, to fingers and go up a good point the other hand, said after the flip has a good point;
lighters do not consecutive to the three ignition, when the third person to point, point out the name after
98. Jiacai, if others first folder and the folder you want the dish on the other side of someone else's hands, they should wait for someone else first folder, instead of from below or above through the
99. men and women walk together (right line), let the girls go in their own right, because the right is safer.
100. men and women up and down stairs, the boys have to go in the following. (tx also said that boys should go on it)
101. eat a meal, Let sit for girls first.
102. boys and girls in the elevator, the girls advanced, boys should be blocking the door; the first out of the elevator boys, blocking the door, or hold the elevator door key first step to allow Ms. first.
103. leave a room or meeting room, boys should take the lead, first open the door.
104. playing time, if blocking his car, not rushing to take their own back.
105 . men and women together, if the girls led the computer or heavy objects, the boys motioned to take the initiative to help carry the child's basic ability
the next one, the ability to accept failure as a bridge to success mmm
in a group of social , the lost opportunities for other people, other people had the opportunity to win more than that, therefore, than the target on the first, and strive forward, more importantly, should be to do anything attitude. Please do not forget you fear of failure of the child when the child more growth opportunities are being denied you. We can not because of his fear and obsessed with the first, and virtually tied to the child's hands and feet to the contrary, it should fall to raise children, you can have to stand up, and the ability to move forward again.
we have to remember that there is no the child's first step
philosophical thinking, and always skeptical spirit, do not put everything for granted like the treatment should not be used directly to look at things too much, not model, but in theory as the basic, to explain the things encountered, are not familiar with, and if there is no thought of gain, not because of your IQ is not enough.
Third, the ability to perceive happiness can develop self-mmm Since the variable being the ability to
officer not happiness, wealth is not happiness, then what is happiness? my teacher told me: Happiness is not how much happiness lies in perception of happiness! capacity without a sense of happiness, whether He got more, he will not be happy; one can sense a happy person, no matter how trivial, he is happy.
four leading leadership mmm the first condition for the benefit of others with heart
Leaders are not born, but rather nurture, and three children before the age of emotional development is the key period, so the parents do not let the children at this time only of intelligent development, communication and learning missed the best time to observe others . children learn to communicate both in kindergarten or school, will be like their peers, friends will be around a lot, it can do for his future lay the foundation for good relationships. if not a leader, will become a popular person.
need to rely on leadership training to enhance, aspiring leaders need a chance to hone his leadership skills. let their children participate in sports teams, Boy Scout. extra-curricular activity groups and other community organizations, bar, where they will be politics matter of experience. But children should also be within the scope of its interest to strive for leadership.
five, reading ability can develop insight into the world mmm
in the eyes of the children read the lead Way of the process, parents should remember that your shoulders only 2 major tasks: the first is to make children like to read; the second is to teach children how to read.
six overall basic communication skills Ability mmm cradle < br> life, the road is tortuous, a person no matter how smart, how good, if not other people's support, has made outstanding achievements is unlikely. If there is no support from others, and even ways to get high can not find wisdom. Smart parents should understand that their children if they feel the exchange is a pleasure, no matter whom they can communicate with ease, your mind and body, inside and outside the line, his circle and will be increasing, and his blending of the future and society will become increasingly strong. However, the wise parents should know that no matter what, children need families to understand, help and support.
VII, English language ability mmm times the global village, the basic conditions for survival of the language
acquisition, mainly through access to a lot of comprehensible input to achieve, and to listen to obtain intelligible language input is the most important channels. Therefore, when the children's response to child counseling in English listening ability of cognitive strategies to give sufficient attention.
eight, the ability of the economy the key to a better future mmm open (slightly)
nine, self-control self-control mmm a powerful force
the journey of life, in order to achieve their goals, perhaps you need to dry Some do not want to do, give up some of his own deep fascination with things, so feel a certain amount of In the ; and Remember, we must believe in yourself and your children have to believe!
ten children's future achievement of basic competencies
1. training exercise habits, training, learning self-care ability
established on the basis of health, if not health, learning on the greatly reduced, without a healthy body, even the soul is also a problem. Therefore, training on childhood favorite sports personality.
2. develop regular routines and learn time management skills
regular rest, that is, time management, a knowledge of time management to know how to control life, plan the future, work and leisure time planning well, usually develop a regular life, the future success of the road a great impact.
3. customary nature, the ability to play a respect for life to a child cognitive
mysteries of nature, the evolution of ecological and environmental protection must be, are the subject of nurturing children healthy personality, on the one hand is to allow children to enjoy the beautiful nature and context of teaching, on the other hand to enable children to experience and potential to play a respect for life.
4. to try new things, training, problem-solving abilities
community has been emphasized that the so-called competitive But for parents, how to cultivate their competitive advantage? Do we always have to work through academic competition, or competitive advantage? In fact, in life there are problem-solving abilities of children, is the real advantage of the group.
5. from the life of the ability to develop good interpersonal relationships
the foundation of human existence, not only allow the family more rolls in the future workplace, and work can get along. Therefore, in cultivating children's interpersonal relations can not be neglected element.
6. training skills, training and the ability to share
E generation capacity of children to express more and more simplified, even a phenomenon often lied; in fact, express themselves on the poor future competition for jobs is very disadvantaged position. training children skills, training willing to share personality traits, a child can not do non-science.
7. willing to help others, the training division of the ability of the team
children nature is all good comparison and competition is to teach adults and virtually out of the wrongful act, in fact, mutual interaction between the child and have fun nature, helpless adults like to own the concept of socialization express inappropriate, potentially misleading the child interaction.
8. cultivate an interest, with the ability to
diversified development as children grow a tree planting, trees should grow a wide lush, not thriving, high above, and there is no foil That would give people a sense of loneliness.
9. to comply with norms, the ability to adapt to the future
culture of freedom and democracy is the future trend, but also with the effort we seek the direction of free and democratic society should be founded on law-abiding individuals disciplined, training children to comply with norms sentiment of course one of the important work of education.
10. willing to participate, the ability to inspire active learning on the field to learn what
continuous process, the child is curious about things motivation to learn, had to learn by exploring. inspired by the child's
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