Make the best of their own (2)

 The choice is their own
successful year, I skipped class the
five years old, I think the kindergarten homework too easy, so with their parents to take the initiative, said: br> parents suggested that I read step by step, until there is enough ability to go to primary school.
to learn more knowledge, I boldly asked: No, I would not have passed entrance examinations in primary schools; But if I had a test to show that I can do it, then you should let me go to school. reading, and finally admitted to a private school high marks.
it let me know, as long as a bold attempt, proactive, I hope I have the chance to get the success. This is for my self-confidence and positive future lay a solid foundation.
back the true deep, he wrote a letter to me, in a letter he wrote: My goal is to test junior high school, admitted to junior high school do, I have not thought about; junior high school, the parents gave me the goal is to test high school, admitted to high school what to do, I have not thought about; read in high school, parents My goal is to test into college, go to college to do, I have not thought about; at university, parents gave me the goal is to go abroad, going abroad to do, I have not thought about; now studying to get a degree, looking for work, the next step should I do? This time, I want to Think it over. Thank you for the third letter, it woke me up for 25 years buried in the enterprise, it changed my 25 years of passive way of life. From now on, I should take the initiative for themselves to live! people are still lost in a passive way to live. So, in attitude of all the most important in life, I actively in the first place.
from the creation of more time passed, I found that, although my original intention is decision, some students said bluntly in his letter: br> In such a communication and exchange, I gradually realized that the passive way of thinking is that students are in the educational environment in childhood, family background and the importance of group consciousness to cultivate a culture of blowing out the G? / p>
In the current education system, students listen to their parents and teachers every arrangement problems can get from their parents and teachers to help develop the habit of passive. Therefore, many young people are not good at planning their growth initiative road, do not know how to actively seek out resources to their academic and life to a higher ladder.
the other hand, parents and teachers are used to pre-empt, to help children and students to design life, which often make them lose sight of their real character and interest, so they grow up they will probably find themselves feeling lost in the on In order to become an international talent, the information age in order to play its full potential, every enterprising young people should try to make their own from passive to active, to become masters of their own future, and actively manage their academic and future cause. because no one cares more about you than your own work and life, no one is more suitable than you manage your own life and career, and only active, to find the true always happy on the road!
What is proactive?
active (Pro-active) The term was first used by the famous psychologist Victor? Frank referral to the public. Frank himself is a pro-active, never to difficulties typical bow.
you always have the final choice
by Frank Freud had a deep psychological impact of the decision of school psychologists, but in the Nazi concentration camps went through a miserable Years later, he created a unique style out of school psychology.
Frank's parents, wife, brother died of the clutches of the Nazis, while he was in the Nazi concentration camps tortured. One day, he alone naked in the cell being, suddenly had a new feeling mm, perhaps, is the camp's harsh environment so that he suddenly alert: , that is, the freedom to choose their own attitude. Frank chose a positive attitude. He did not despair, but in my mind imagine how his release after standing on the podium, this painful experience to listen to tell his students.
With this positive , optimistic way of thinking, Frank in prison will continue to hone their own, so that my mind beyond the cage of the detention of any of the free world in the ride.
Frank in prison thinking that criteria, it is every the pursuit of a successful person should have a proactive attitude mm.
passive and active in many areas there is a huge difference (Table 0? 1):
table 0? a passive vs .
passive and active people who
own initiative and the environment affected by the environment around their own right to choose what led
people and things everyone can do to promote the progress of the leading or
seek help when problems
environment of independent thinking bad complaining aggressive
always used to say only you can tell me how to do it. I must obey the environmental arrangements. Who can tell me what to choose professional? how no one noticed me? I always do not have time to do something. Only you can tell me how to do it. My parents have diabetes, I would have. all by myself, I can do better. I have right to choose. I want to develop a plan to select the most suitable for my profession. I'm going to learn how to arouse people's attention. What should I give up something important to do the most important thing? only I have the right to and responsibility to decide how I do. Although parents have diabetes, but as long as attention to exercise, diet, can reduce the risk of disease.